29 Weeks

Brian and I have finally decided on a name for this growing baby boy. We knew from the very beginning that we wanted him to be called Jack, but we were not too sure on the middle name. After much consideration, and a few names that should have never been mentioned (Jacks Elvis) we decided on Jackson Thomas Smalley. Brian's grandfather's name is Johnny Thomas, and we thought that it would be nice to use his middle name for our son. My brother's name and my grandfather's name is Thomas as well, so I think we are both trying to keep this name in the family. I love it. Hopefully Jack will love it too!

Brian and I were blessed with a wonderful gift this past weekend. It was something that I wanted, but did not think that I would get. A friend of the family bought us a beautiful moses basket and stand to use as a bassinet for Jack. I'm probably going to use this during the first few months when he will need some extra attention during the night. I know it is going to be perfect.

I also had a doctor's appointment this past Tuesday. I did not realize that the blood in my body is Rh negative until the nurse came into the room with a shot that looked like it could be used on a horse! I haven't had a shot in ages. I felt silly because I had no clue what it means to be Rh negative, nor did I understand that a shot of Rhogam would take care of everything! I didn't want to sound too naive, so I just went along with it and acted like I knew exactly why she was there with this killer shot. I was determined to do this with plenty of bravery. Obviously, I went home and did some research on having Rh- blood and the purpose of the Rhogam shot. It turns out that my own blood could have killed this little angel! Who knew! During pregnancy, an Rh-negative mother can make antibodies (part of her immune system's response to invaders) against Rh-positive blood cells, which the baby could have, cross the placenta and attack baby Jack!!! So, this painful shot stops this immune response! Thank goodness for modern day science and medicine. That was the extent of my appointment. I also asked if I was too big and if Jackson has enough room. The doctor assured me that he will make room if there is not enough, that I'm doing fine with weight gain, and I should be able to work up to the day I deliver. (I told the doc to keep that last little bit to himself.)

For the most part, Jack and I are doing great at 29 weeks. It is going by so quickly. There is so much of me that is completely ready for this little blessing to be here, and there is another entire side of me feels like we need 5 more months to prepare. I am fortunate to have family and friends who love and support me so much. It has helped me to feel excited about his arrival. I know he is going to bring so much more love into this world!